Balanced Parenting - Spending more time with your children
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Balanced Parenting: Raising Your Kids without Stress

February 6, 2019

Being fully committed to both your work and your family live seems like an impossible task, but it is one mother simply have to take on. Being perceived as not fully present, either as an employee or as a mother, can be quite thankless and exhausting. However, it doesn’t necessarily have to be that way. It is entirely possible to pursue a gratifying full-time career while taking on an active role as a mother if you learn how to find a proper balance between the two aspects of your life. Here are some tips on how to juggle these two sides more easily and raise your kids without stress:

Let go of the guilt

Even in our seemingly progressive society, some sexist stereotypes still persist – mothers are often judged for returning to work full time after having a child, while fathers are expected to go to work to provide for their families. However, some women don’t have the option of being stay-at-home mothers, while others simply choose to go back to work because they don’t want to give up on their career. Whatever the reason, deciding to be a working mother is a choice that should be admired, not judged or shamed. If you are feeling guilty about not spending every waking hour with your child, you have to let it go. Try to focus on all the positive things that your job is contributing to your family life. When you are confident that you are making the best choice for you and your family, your child will understand the sacrifice and feel the extent of your love.

Find childcare providers you trust

Find Childcare Providers You Can Trust

There are going to be times when your work life is simply going to have to take priority and that is understandable. However, knowing that your child is taken care of is crucial to have some peace of mind when you are working. While finding a nanny, a daycare or even a family member to look after your child is a good option, the best idea might be to enrol your child in a quality learning centre. Besides being cared for by qualified professional and socializing with their peers, your child will be able to learn and grow every day in an institution like this.


Whatever the reason, deciding to be a working mother is a choice that should be admired, not judged or shamed.

Use time-saving hacks

Use shortcuts and plan your day strategically in order to get the most done in the least amount of time. For example, if your mornings are usually stressful because you’re always rushing to get out the door on time, try to prepare outfits and lunches the night before. You could get into the habit of ordering your groceries online and get them delivered to your house, to ensure you save some time and get everything that you need in the process.  You could even schedule conference calls during your commute or get a few quick errands done on your lunch break, in order to free up more time during the week.

Limit your distractions

Limit your distractions - spend more time with your children

Time is extremely valuable when you are a working mother. While you’re at work, be mindful of the time you’re spending socializing with your coworkers and don’t let them affect your productivity. Also, shorten any long lunch break and limit the time you spend surfing the internet, to ensure you get the most out of your work time. When you’re at home, always focus on your child and your partner, instead of the computer or the TV, and make sure the time you spend together is intentional and meaningful.

Take care of yourself

When you’re taking care of someone who is completely dependent on you, while simultaneously trying to juggle a career, it can be easy to forget about taking care of yourself. However, finding some time for yourself is the key to maintaining inner peace and balance between your personal and professional life. So, find the time in your schedule for an activity that will allow you to relax and recharge your batteries, such as yoga, meditation, reading, listening to music, catching up with a friend or simply pampering yourself. Taking proper care of yourself is the only way to ensure you are taking good care of someone else.

Maintaining a successful career and a fulfilling family life is entirely possible, even though it may not look exactly how you pictured it. Just learn how to recognize and appreciate all of the great things you have and take it one step at a time.

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